“You can search throughout the entire universe for someone who is more deserving of your love and affection than you are yourself, and that person is not to be found anywhere. You, yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.”—Gautama Buddha (via observando)
“do not tell her you love her if you are not ready for her to call you at 3 AM freaking out.
do not tell her you love her if you cannot handle her father or mother.
do not tell her you love her if you cannot love her at her worse.
do not tell her you love her if you only crave for her curves, not her mind.
do not tell her you love her if you cannot deal with her mood swings.
do not tell her you love her just to have sex.”—
“It is an interesting law of romance that a truly strong woman will choose a strong man who disagrees with her over a weak one who goes along. Strength demands intelligence, intelligence demands stimulation, and weakness is boring. It is better to find a partner you can contend with for a lifetime than one who accommodates you because he doesn’t really care.”—Roger Ebert (via observando)
“I don’t give a shit about grand gestures or flowers at my door, I just want your teeth across my neck and my lips pressed to the small of your back, I want your stupid fucking sense of humour making me laugh at 4am when I have to be up at 6.”—(via ruby-moon)
I’m confident that if we met at a different time in our lives we would have worked. If we met in grad school and I wasn’t partying anymore, and we were both so invested in school we would have gotten married. It’s been three and a half months and I still think about you everyday. Our nine months were the happiest of my life and I don’t know if I’ll ever get over them. You were the best boyfriend that I’ve ever had, and although I’m still very mad at you for giving up on us, I admire our ability to be friends. I hope our romantic paths cross again in the future, because now I know what it takes to keep you. If you had told me that it was either you or partying, I would have chosen you every time, no questions asked. You wouldn’t have even had to finish the statement because I would choose you that fast. It’s funny, it took losing you to kick the bad habits. Hope guides me. I miss you terribly. Quizisixi.